Hi - new here so I'd better introduce myself. I recently separated from my partner of 10 years. We have 3 dcs under 6 but, cliche alert, about 2 years ago he had an affair with a colleague. I found out and although he ditched her after dithering about for a couple of weeks and we tried again, my heart just wasn't in it - always felt deep down that really I deserved someone who loved me enough to never do that to me, particularly as it was a full on EA as well and I got to read all the mails and texts between them, which was awful. He said much nicer things to her than he'd ever said to me!
But enough of that - I have dumped the dead weight and am now (despite 9 month old baby) back on the market. So I'd really like some tips on internet dating - I live in a small town and can't often get a babysitter as I'm quite new here. The idea of being able to chat a bit and weed out the undesirables first sounds ideal. So, tips on where to start much appreciated - I have no idea of good sites etc - thanks in advance.