Anyone else having this embarrassing problem down there??

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Had to change my name for this one.
Before giving birth I used to get sort of damp down there when aroused. After the birth we didn't have sex for quite a while. But once we started again, I always get very, very wet when aroused. I ahd it checked at the clinic and I do not have any kind of infection so it's not that.
It does not smell or anything, it's just very damp and I find it embarrassing when getting close to DH when he's about to touch me. He never seemed to notice and hasn't commented on it but I don't quite know if this is normal or not. And yes, the same happens if I please myself. Anytime I get aroused.
Anyonelese found the same problem?
Is it a problem?

sorry if TMI... but i think the wetter you get the better! I always get very wet, and always assumed it was normal!

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It all sounds perfectly normal to me.
Agree with Starlover - the wetter the better

just checked with DP.... he said yes, the wetter the better... as long as you;re still nice and tight!

sorry, that's SO tmi!!!

too wet two threads

sorry about the two threads. don't know what happened there! I was worried one of them was still under my usual name

hmmmm. i didn't think of that aspect: the wetter , the better.

however, obviously my knickers get wet (if I still have them on!) whcih is what i find embarrasing. should i just not worry about it? sounds so silly, I know. and i'm a grown woman and all that, yet such a small issue makes me think.

starlover, lol at your DP. still nice and tight but when it's so wet, it makes it slide in so much quicker IYKWIM.

are you more confortable with yourself now. when i was younger i would tend to "get dry" almost right after starting. very embarrassing. now though after being married and "great sex" i have the same problem. only dh gets all excited...now i can't wait for him to get home..

Most men would find damp knickers a huge turn on .... it shows them how much they've aroused you !!!

haven, yes. it used to embarrass me a lot more when i was younger and i didn't get quite that wet in those days.

catsmother, really? then i should consider myself lucky if that's the case.

maybe because i don't know how other women deal with or if they find this to be an issue, makes me feel occurred.

i have to say i did find all your replies very re-assurring. thank you all.

agree with the others, your DH most likely loves it!

crude joke alert

Q How do you know when you 've had a great date?
A Because when you undress your knickers stick if you throw them at the ceiling

Sorry, you lot are having breakfast aren't you

I used to be the same with my ex dp and he used to think it was a huge turn on seeing and feeling that I was so wet and so aroused myself, it used to lead to the best sex ever!

i used to be the same with my ex too. i used to get very wet while having sex. (except when I got pregnant)

Since we split up though I'm very dry even though my 'feelings' are the same (ahem)

I'm getting worried about it now.

Your very lucky to get wet lol!!

suzywong - you are sooo bad......

I get very wet too and am very proud of it!!! Men LOVE it! I think I get wetter now since having the babies too or maybe I'm just at my sexual peak!

My bf adores it when I tell him about my dampy knickers (especially if I'm at work!!).

Be glad - when we hit the menopause we'll be all dry - not looking forward to that one bit!!!!

dampy ????? damp sorry!

Yes, we (I) love it.

It's so great to have a guy's opinion on here

You won't lynch me, then?

Of course notIt's nice to see a man being open. Wish you could teach that to my dh. He doesn't discuss sex, ever!!!

I'm sure the other Mumsnetters think I am willing to discuss sex too much!!