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He rang her while I was away

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Yorkiegirl · 04/06/2005 12:53

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darlingbud · 04/06/2005 12:57

oh my god YG. how did you find out? did he say why he contected her if she hadn't contacted him?

tammybear · 04/06/2005 12:59

sorry YG but whats been happening?

that sounds a bit stupid if you got a new number to avoid her, it would be like me ringing xdp after changing my number because of him! but maybe he rang her withheld number?

coppertop · 04/06/2005 13:00

YG What on earth did he think he was doing?????

darlingbud · 04/06/2005 13:05

YG power has gone off so she can't reply. I have run her and I'm going round in a bit.

moozoboozo · 04/06/2005 13:09

Send my love to her xxxx

Hope everything is ok. Why are men so stupid sometimes?

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Yorkiegirl · 04/06/2005 13:45

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Chandra · 04/06/2005 13:54

Oh! what he was thinking about???? is he really serious about stoping contact with her???

roisin · 04/06/2005 13:56

I'm really sorry to hear this YG

lou33 · 04/06/2005 14:29
Sad
misdee · 04/06/2005 14:30
Sad
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Yorkiegirl · 04/06/2005 16:44

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trefusis · 04/06/2005 16:49

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Yorkiegirl · 04/06/2005 16:50

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swiperfox · 04/06/2005 16:54

(((((((((((((()))))))))))))))

trefusis · 04/06/2005 16:54

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pixiefish · 04/06/2005 16:54

Thinking of you YG.

noddyholder · 04/06/2005 16:55

i followed this thread before and feel so for you that he has shown you so little respect I think you need to think of yourself now and ask him some serious questions

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Yorkiegirl · 04/06/2005 16:55

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noddyholder · 04/06/2005 16:56

why did he ring her back?

pixiefish · 04/06/2005 16:56

I spose if you ignored it he would think everything was ok wouldn't he? Men- they're so bl@@@y unreasonable and thick sometimes

docket · 04/06/2005 16:57

YG, am sorry to hear this. I don't really know much about your situation but I think that if my partner was behaving like this I would feel compelled to give him an ultimatum. He sounds like he has behaved really badly and I'm giving him a big cyberpunch.

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hunkermunker · 04/06/2005 16:59

YG, have you asked him how he'd feel if it was you doing this with a man he didn't like?

I'm sure you have, btw - can't he see that if it's upsetting you so badly, it's not worth it?

Hugs for you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

noddyholder · 04/06/2005 16:59

could/would you call his bluff and ask for a break for a while?He may then realise what he is risking Also can't believe she is still contacting him Do they need to be in touch for work?

pixiefish · 04/06/2005 17:01

agree with noddyholder- call his bluff- tell him that you think he needs time on his own to realise what he's doing to you.

She's also a prize bit@@. Running after a married man with kids.

Fight for him though YG- don't you dare give in too easily- your girls need and deserve their dad, you deserve a husband, she deserves a kick up the arse