Hello, i'm a namechanging regular.
I'm also very pregnant, 39+5
Yesterday I found out that my husband has been ringing prostitutes. It isn't the first time he's done it. I almost left him last time I found out, he promised it would never happen again. Ha.
He is very contrite, upset and apologetic. He admits he gets a buzz from it, in the same way that some get a buzz from drinking, taking drugs etc. He's offered to seek counselling, sort himself out etc etc... trouble is I've heard it all before.
I'm fairly confident he isn't actually visiting prostitutes, I can account for his whereabouts pretty much all the time. He's always either at work or at home. My problem is that he is seeking sexual gratification by speaking to another human being. I don't have a problem with masturbation or porn, but his interaction with a real life, real time person has crossed a line that I drew for him years ago.
I'm driving myself mad. I'm so upset. I should be angry, but tbh I don't have the energy. I just feel so sad and so let down. If the baby is born in the next couple of days then the birth will be completely overshadowed by this.
I could do with some advice. I really don't know what to do.