I have posted on here about my marriage before. Basically i don't feel we have a marriage. as a couple we have nothing in common, we don't communicate etc etc. i don't love him and when he comes near me i just cringe.
The thing is htat i really feel (and have had a few years of feeling like this now) that i want to seperate but I know thata he doesn't want to and doesn't think that we have a problem. and obv it would be huge upheaval for our dds.
has anyone here seperated just because THEY wanted to/ do they feel that it was the right thing to do?
the arrangement that we have come to at the moment is that we will both make a huge effort for a month and thenwe will live apart for a month and go form there....I know my dh thinks that i will back down on this as i have before but i just don't know what else to do. any advice please.