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So moving on from the confessions thread, how many people have you had sex with?

129 replies

elsmommy · 26/05/2005 18:52

I've slept with 6 - not many compared to most of you posting on the other thread

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Donbean · 26/05/2005 20:30

no calmriver,not cruel at all. I did very similar, waited 6 months with dh, one year with ex bf (that was 12 years ago)

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PinkFluffPudding · 26/05/2005 21:33

About half - from four week flings to marriage.

nikcola · 26/05/2005 21:34

1 and a half

lou33 · 26/05/2005 21:35

most of them were one night stands, about 7 or so were relationships

Forgetmenot · 26/05/2005 21:37

Too many!
Lost count after 40!!

But..........

Won't die wondering!!!!!

charliecat · 26/05/2005 21:38

Er about 15 were relationships, some only a few weeks, others were friends who I fell into bed with and the others were like vibrators without the batterys, up for it whenever.

hotmama1 · 26/05/2005 21:39

Just dp who I have been with since I was 14 and am now 38 - but we're not married - does 'having a child outside marriage' make me more interesting or am I just unadventurous and sad?

charliecat · 26/05/2005 21:40

ive got 2 of those

Titania · 26/05/2005 21:41

just the one.....ended up marrying him.....

lou33 · 26/05/2005 21:42

to those of you who have only been with their current partner, do you ever think you will want to know what else is out there?

Gobbledigook · 26/05/2005 21:44

Charlepeeters - oh no! I CAN COUNT THEM EASILY ON ONE HAND! NO MORE THAN YOU!

In relationships.

notsure40 · 26/05/2005 22:08

lou33.I've only ever been with my current partner for about 20years. However i've seen enough of the world, read enough, talked to enough people to know not having been with anyone else wasn't missing out on anything not when what I had was so great. The thought of wondering what it would be like with another person never entered my head...that is until my partner had an affair! Now I'm not so sure anymore.

Gobbledigook · 26/05/2005 22:11

I think I'd only start to wonder if something was amiss in the current relationship - which it's not.

swiperfox · 26/05/2005 22:28

I'm too scared to work it out

zippy539 · 26/05/2005 22:34

7 - not counting fumblings... I used to think that was a fairly shocking total but now I'm a fair old age, I think it's okay!

Satine · 26/05/2005 22:37

I liked the line from 4 weddings - more than princess di, less than madonna

MistressMary · 26/05/2005 22:46

"to those of you who have only been with their current partner, do you ever think you will want to know what else is out there?" Lou 33.

Why should I?
One man is enough for me, and sometimes that is one too many!
Don't want to play around either, thanks.

Janna · 26/05/2005 22:56

only one so far and that was with my ex.
Met when we were 17 and split up last year. I'm 28 now.
I feel abnormal, Most of my mates are stunned when I tell them when I've only been with one bloke. Some blokes can'tbelieve it either. I've met a couple of twats who think that i'm an easy lay just because I've got two kids. 'oo look she can reproduce therefore she must be eager for it'.
I can quite happily live without sex at the moment. Most men that are single out there seem to be twats about sex and it's well puutting me off meeting anyone new as they are all the same
(sorry turned into a mini-rant there lol)

SleepyJess · 26/05/2005 23:04

I marry and have babies with every man I sleep with! (2!)

SJ (who wishes she had been a bit more slutty when she had the chance! )

SleepyJess · 26/05/2005 23:14

Satine, that line is 4 weddings bugged me! Andie McDowel (or whtever her name is.. or used to be, before she became just some has-been who advertises stuff to cover grey hair.. "because she's worth it".. er not!).. is annoying enough anyway.. but that part!!!! I watched it again recently.. it's a horrible selfish character! Can't see why Hugh Grant let her mess him about like that!!

rant over!

Gobbledigook · 26/05/2005 23:16

Same here MM

And I'm happy to say that dh can count his on one hand too.

marthamoo · 26/05/2005 23:21

When? Today? None.

marthamoo · 26/05/2005 23:21

Yet.