My now ex partner was not on steroids when we met, he did not seem interested in the gym, i realised a huge change in him, when he started going to the gym about a year and a half into the relationship, and have found out that he had been taking anabolic steroids for last 3 months of our relationship, it fits in perfectly with his aggresion and personality change that i feel caused the seperation, i feel really hurt and cheated, wondered if anyone has had any experience of this.