OH lives away all week so weekends come and obviously we have sex at the weekend.
Last night I was 'up for it' (excuse the term!) and really got into it but after a while I could feel I was getting 'dry' down there and then started to put pressure on myself to have an orgasm (which i didn't.)
I keep having this 'dry' problem and have got some lube but sometimes cant be bothered to use it.
I also find OH pleases himself and doesnt pay me much attention during sex, its kind of like 'wham bam thankyou mam!' and im abit fed up with him not concenrating more on me. We have been together for 11 years, he was my first sexual partner. How do I tell him im not happy in the bedroom department without upetting him?