dh is always moaning that we dont spend much time on foreplay (huh yeah a i know a bloke moaning about lack of foreplay!). Thing is weve got two children 4 and and 17mths and im the main carer so im always knackered and not in the mood for sex. I want to in my head but my body just wants to go to sleep. So if dh wants i find myself getting bored or counting the minutes and wishing to just get on with the deed. I used to enjoy foreplay but sex is such an effort in itself. Once we are doing the deed i strat to enjoy myself-however as soon as its over i turn over and go sleep god i sound like such a man!!!!