DP has been divorced for 2 years. He has told me that his ex is a bit of a nutter but never elaborated.
Thing is, he seems shit scared of her. He's lied to me to give her money to keep her happy (not alot, just a tenner but still) and there was other stuff. I sneaked a look on his phone one evening (I wouldn't normally, but I had a feeling he was lying to me about something important, unrelated to the ex) and I found loads of wierd messages from her. One of which was "I'm not an artist, I'm a psycopath and a chav and I'll make them all fucking pay" ??!
WTF?
There were others too, in the same kind of theme. He never tells me about them or even mentions them. I can't mention them because I shouldn't have been on his phone in the first place but I'm wondering what the hell is going on.
I looked on his phone last night and he's deleted all the texts from her, but kept everyone else's on.