A few months ago, my partner of 14 months moved in with me and my DD. He brought with him his two children.
Everything has been going fine as far as the kids are concerned and me and DP have not fallen out or anything yet but his behaviour seems to be getting stranger as the weeks go by.
When he moved in he brought with him four guinea pigs. He then bought another two after he moved. I didn't mind as four of them are kept outside anyway but on a night, he lets the indoor ones out of their cage and they have the full run of the downstairs. He says they need the exercise but they go nuts, running around the living room, behind the sofa, darting into the kitchen, running behind the TV where all the wires are etc ... DP just sits there pissing himself laughing but the carpet stinks of wee and poo. Another thing is that he uses ALL the salad from the fridge everynight to make them 'suppers'. The other night I went to bed before him and in the morning I came down and there was guinea pig poo ALL OVER the living room floor and bits of chewed lettuce and carrots scattered everywhere.
Then we had an incident at the weekend where I walked into the bathroom to find toilet roll all over the floor and the actual roll had a massive chunk just ripped out of the side of it.
I asked DP who'd done it, assuming it to be one of the kids and he just kept laughing and saying he didn't know who would do that. Later on that night, I went into the bathroom to find the sink overflowing with water and the floor sopping wet through. Someone had put toilet roll down the plug hole but what annoyed me the most is that DP was the last person in there. So, even if it wasn't him that did it, he must have surely seen it and not said anything.
He was then laughing about it all night.
He is great in other ways but as this sillyness gets more extreme I'm wondering how far it is going to go. We're short of money as it is without having to pay for repairs etc.
Why would he act like this? do you think he's regretting moving in and is trying to cause some hassle between us?
I am a regular with a namechange btw. Greggs sausage rolls, bats, cod etc etc so no troll accusations please.