Quick summary.
Ex has had drug addiction issues.
I think he is financially & emotionally abusive.
He has run up huge debts in my name by bullying, lying, stealing etc.
He thinks he is entitled to anything he wants. If I don't give into him he throws tantrums / threatens:
Currently I have debts of £36k approx, can't pay bills, in arrears on mortgage, my only income is £500 tax credits/child benefit a month, IS claim taking forever.
His money all goes on drug debts. Refused to help him further. His family helped him, also they paid £500 into my account.
He gave me £60 then started saying he needed money to pay friend - so gave it back to him to cover his debt/ night out, fags etc til he had more money.
Today he expects me to buy him cigarettes as he apparently gave his friend most of the money to help him out.
I said no - he doesn't accept no.
In the last few weeks, his threats (when I aid no to anything from £1000 for drug debt, to £2.50 for cigarettes, to £5 for takeaway, £10 for a friend) included - if you don't give it i will kill myself, I will run away, I will break your things, I will treat you like the arse you are, I will "show you". I will spend more money.Drug dealers will come to your house & could hurt you. I would like to kick your head in.
He came back here as chucked out of uncle's house. Refused to leave.
Tonight he climbed through a window when i was at a friend;s - as soon as I got back, he asked for the money again. I said i'd call the police - he went - then returned, let him use phone to call friend, he has bus pass. He would only try 1 friend.
Has since gone / come back several times, calls me down, then says "i just want £2.50", laughs. Bangs on door, has thrown stones at window. Says he'll be back.
It all seems crazy over £2.50, though of course it's over lots more than that in reality, and fact if I don't obey he threatens me.
He's mad, right????