quick bit of history... Hubby and I seperated last september, told me he was going to move out after xmas (08), and he's still here.. tells me he can't afford to move out now
when I saw my solicitor about our seperation agreement I didn't ask if I could make him move out as he was going to do so.
H pays half the mortgage and me £100 per month to live on the sofa and believe me does f**k all in the house, ohh sorry I forgot he put the bins out!
he does all his own cooking, cleans the sink out after himself, and washing..
I think he now lives the life of riley with no parental or household responsibilities, and the rest of his wages go on himself.. ie beer!
so, before I go back to my solicitor, who I thought was a bit drippy, can any of you tell me some happy stories of how you got your ex to move out!
I need to move on and it is really unsettling the kids..
I forgot to mention he met a woman on my space and has met up with her and has been intimate with her.. but he thinks I don't know! she lives in australia from what I can gather and is selling up to come back here. he is going over there in the summer apparently..
will also x post this on legal
thanks