DP gone missing, I am racked with anxiety and guilt.

[sausagetits]

DP has been having a hard time recently, I didn't help matters last night by losing my patience and my temper. I said some wicked things which I know I should'nt even though he did say some pretty awful things too.

He went out on his motorbike at 2am, won't answer his phone. He left his sat nav here which is very unusual. He hasn't got his bank card with him (or so he told me when I asked) and I don't know what to do.

I've already rung our local A& E but can't face ringing any more hospitals.

I have two DC who will wake up soon, in fact it's a miracle DS is still asleep.

I feel so anxious and have no idea what to do.

[ingles2]

what a worry .Fingers crossed he lets you know he's ok soon.

[sausagetits]

I just don't know what to do now.........

[forwardsandbackwards]

I think ring his dad and just say is he there cos you had a row ,without saying too much or that it was 2 am~so he doesn't have a shock i meanxx

[Dior]

Keep as calm as you can. Have you reported him missing yet? The police will need to know as soon as possible.

Don't beat yourself up, people row all the time. It was just bad timing.

[OrmIrian]

How awful sausage. Keeping everything crossed for you.

[Flynnie]

Sausage, poor you.

Stop blaming yourself.
Has he ever done anything like this before?

[sausagetits]

have been trying some hospitals, I guess I better call the police.
Do I ring my local station, or 999?

I'm so scared.

[sausagetits]

he has gone off before but never like this and never in this frame of mind.

[ingles2]

I think I'd try the family first sausage. I appreciate they are not in the best of health but I'm sure they'd want to know.

[GColdtimer]

ARe you in London, here is the page from the met's website about reporting someone missinglink. Looks like you can go the police station or call them.

Could you call his Dad to just check he is not there as forward suggests (don't need to go into details) or ask a friend to come and be with you?

[sausagetits]

yes, you're right ingles. I'll try his sister in Cardiff.

[GColdtimer]

Sorry, that didn't work, here are all the numbers of the local numbers

I agree with ingles though, contact the family first to check he isn't there.

[sausagetits]

I don't have any close friends local who can be with me.

Damn, my mobile with all my contacts is out of battery. Charging it now but telling me to wait when I try to turn it on.

[sausagetits]

He just rang! Just after I put the phone down to his sister to tell her he'd gone missing. I told him to ring her straightaway and he said he'd ring me back.

I guess it's relief he's not in a morgue somewhere but I'm totally in pieces now.

[popsycal]

thank god

[SerendipitousHarlot]

You poor woman, what a horrible worry for you

Thank goodness he's ok xxx

[Lizzylou]

Phew!
Thank goodness.
Try and calm down, you may get angry now that he has scared you so much, but you both need to talk with a calm and clear head.
Tell him how scared you were and how pleased you were to hear his voice.

[Songbird]

Have been lurking with beating heart! So glad he's OK, just hope things are OK!

[OrmIrian]

Thank goodness!

[foofi]

So glad he's OK.

[GColdtimer]

glad he is ok sausage

[MuppetsMuggle]

thank god hes called.

[GooseyLoosey]

Very glad he's OK. Hope you are feeling OK too now.

[forwardsandbackwards]

Thank goodness!
As others say,take a few minutes to be calm and think,have a cup of tea.
Tell him you were worried for his welfare,you are sorry for things said in the heat of the row and can you get along talking calmly instead of heated rows that hurt feelings.
That you can help him get help but he also has to be fair to you by communicating whats wrong and not disappearing.

[ingles2]

Thank god for that.
If this would me I'd be raging now but I don't think that's the best plan. Try to keep cool and calm.
Good luck sausage