My friend of many years rang me up in tears last night.
She`s been married to a lovely guy for years and they have 2 children.
She has apparently been unhappy for most of their marriage and repeatedly asked her dh to leave.tho he has refused every time and she wont leave the dc obviously.
She has no parents to turn to and was saying she was ashamed last night of telling me she is living a lie but wanted to tell someone.
What can do ?
Shall i just be there for her to talk to or is there some real advise i should be giving her ?
I cant offer her accomodation here as we are only 3 bed ourselves with 3 dc.
I cant give her any money and i know they arent poor but she couldnt afford to just up sticks and rent somewhere.
Shes really really unhappy and he hasnt hurt her or anything but wont even talk about leaving - he apparently completely ignores her when the kids are in bed and no one is around ???????????????