DP is tasting his own medicine and he doesn't like it.....

[Supercherry]

For the past 2yrs DP has been a lazy arse when it comes to housework, picking up after himself etc. No amount of nagging, reasoning, pleading from me has changed him one iota. So this week I have left the washing up 2 days in a row and most of the housework. I have left the water in the bath so he has to empty it before he can bath DS.

Needless to say there have been rows- he has just called me lazy. He is obviously very pissed off and I, unashamedly, am loving it. He is now feeling how I have felt for the last 2yrs.

Usually on these threads the DP just carries on leaving the place in a state so I'll be interested to see if he bothers to clean up or just leaves it still...

Keep up the stirling job... you're doing great!

mine just retreats to his room till I do it anyway
He will do enough for himself and nothing more so i end up doing the lot.

good luck

Snow - why do you put up with it?

I just wouldn't?

let him get realy really pissed off and then tell him he either changes his way or employs a cleaner

Thanks for the encouraging words.

Wish we could afford a cleaner Compo.

He has actually washed up the last 2 nights while moaning and cussing. I am just ignoring it though. He actually said he was leaving me yesterday during a hissy fit. I asked him if he was going to finish the washing up before he left .

It feels so good to be on the other side of the fence for once.

supercherry, i know how you feel! DH has also ranted about divorce because he had to do a bit of cleaning

Good Luck!