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advice about sex - 'big' problem!

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susia · 13/04/2009 21:03

well, I know this has been discussed before but I have a new partner who is very well endowed - huge actually. He is gentle and good in bed in other ways too but what to do because it is actually really uncomfortable to have sex even if I'm really turned on and with lube?!

It's not just the width, it's the length too so certain positions are uncomfortable even if I'm turned on. Does anyone have any advice???

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susia · 13/04/2009 21:24

does anyone have any advice?

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HecatesTwopenceworth · 13/04/2009 21:26

yup. take it slow and choose positions that don't let him get too deep inside you. - on top, so you control it and I think there's one where your legs are a bit closed.

But you probably need advice from someone who's actually HAD sex in the last trillion years!

bellavitalikesthesimnellife · 13/04/2009 21:33

and that wouldn't be me then

sorry, that's not helpful is it?

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susia · 13/04/2009 21:36

thanks anyway though...I'm sure someone posted something similar recently but can't remember what the thread was called

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BCNS · 13/04/2009 21:37

spooning might work for you.. and keep your legs low down and your thighs together a bit or clamp his hips with your thighs so you control entry. HTH

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