Can we talk about sex drive??

[notoverit]

I found that I had a high sex drive with boyfriends but when it got more serious and we had problems the sex drive went.

I am single now and have not had mch sex scince dd was born 2years ago. I do feel horny but not like I am dying for it. But sometimes it is an issue.

In my last relationship I never ever wanted sex, I think it was because we had problems and I could not trust him. But at the start it was all fine.

Do you think my sex drive will return whe I start having regular sex?

Yep - the more you use it the more you want it - meanwhile invest in a rabbit

I am sure that if you with the right man, it will be fine. what seems to have happened is that you had relationship problems, and then the sex declined as well- understandable.

If you feel horny now, it shows that it hasn't disappeared!

Well I have got a rabbit, but only really used it properly once, I just cant get turned on by plastic like I can with a guy. So dont find it that satisifying, but maybe you should keep trying.

well you can try manual...I'm not a lover of plastic myself..puts me right off...just use warm fingers..imagination and a little lube..lovely

Mumcentreplus: BOO

Learn what works for you (maybe a rabbit, maybe a different kind of sex toy, maybe just a norty book and your fingers) because then you will be less likely to put up with crap from men, either in bed or out of it, just so you can say you're in a relationship.