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Why do some women go aftewr men in relationships?

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fairyfly · 25/04/2005 10:23

I was in the toilet on friday night in a bar. The woman outside who is 15 years older than me was informing her friend she was going to try and lure my boyfriend back to her house that night.
My x partner had someone blatantly trying to get him, she did as it happens.

Does this happen a lot and what is it about these women. I obviously know it can be the mans fault too, i am not just blaming females. But my point is i dont find a man sexy if he is taken and trying to sleep with someone else.

It seems they like the competition and want to prove they can win a man over other women.

My nanna always told me it was the women you had to be careful of as men are simple creatures.

Any views?

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Flossam · 25/04/2005 18:46

Its a bit like when you are trying to tame a lad who's just a little bit bad or unsuitable. I had an ex like that. He was a bit of a challenge! Women who go for taken men are IMO like that, but a B*tch too I think. There was a girl who DP had hade dealings with years ago, not an ex girlfriend as such. She was out with us on new years a few years back. Me and DP standing next to each other, midnight strikes and she grabs him!!!

Lou's point is also a good one too though. FF, You obviously look after him well!!

fairyfly · 25/04/2005 18:52

I was fine, i doubt i will go out of my way to talk to her again as she obviously doesn't care much for me but heyho thats life. It has done me a favour actually, i would have been scared to death if it was my x and i didn't feel threatened at all. It was a good sign to myself that i trust him, which could have been an issue from my last relationship.
It also led up to my boyfriend telling me all sorts of wonderful things he thinks of me, which is always a nice way to spend half an hour.

Besides she had a red mini skirt on and her breasts hanging out.

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Flossam · 25/04/2005 18:53

dead classy then!!

fairyfly · 25/04/2005 18:54

he is bad and unsuitable, just not with me, people find it hard to get there heads round that

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fairyfly · 25/04/2005 18:54

Very classy

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giraffeski · 25/04/2005 18:54

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giraffeski · 25/04/2005 18:55

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fairyfly · 26/04/2005 06:49

oh no it wasn't in Royston Vasey

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giraffeski · 26/04/2005 13:59

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