Spicing it up in the bedroom

[jackieTP]

I love my DH dearly but things have gone a bit stale in the bedroom of late. Like lots of people we both take on too much and are frequently stressed and tired. Things have become a bit too routine and bad patterns of pressure (from DH) and anxiety (for me) have started to emerge. Anyone got any advice for me? How about some ideas for creating some excitement in the bedroom which might spice it up a bit?!

How about just getting away together alone so you can have a lovely date in a restaurant and them take it as it comes in fabulous hotel? Like you said never having time together is a big issue(same here)

Its a cliche - but wake him up with a bj one morning. Then when you're next in the mood start talking to him about it, how much you liked it, what you thought about him doing to YOU while you were doing him.....

trouble is that i am rarely in the mood these days!!!

Alcohol, some sexy new underwear, porn, mmmm, depends what you're into really. I would defo get a few drinks inside you to get in the mood- it always works for me.