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Mil having affair

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edgarcat · 07/04/2003 14:33

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mum2toby · 07/04/2003 14:40

I'm incredibly nosey.... And I must admit if I was in your shoes I'd tell him, but then again.. what good will it do?? Will he confront his mother, will he tell his Dad??? Could get very messy...

I think I'd be tempted to confront my MIL first and let her know that you know.

It's a tough one, Good luck.

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edgarcat · 07/04/2003 14:42

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edgarcat · 07/04/2003 14:43

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mum2toby · 07/04/2003 14:50

That's true.... it might be a case of 'don't shoot the messenger'! And you definitely don't want to come out of this the bad person. Do you think FIL is just turning a blind eye to it all? If that's the case then I'd leave them to it.... he's a fool and she's taking full advantage.

It is a bit gross isn't it. It's hard enough having to deal with the thought that dp was breastfed by MIL, never mind the thought of her having a quickie on the office desk!!!!

How old is she, if you don't mind me asking?

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edgarcat · 07/04/2003 14:57

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jasper · 07/04/2003 21:11

IMO I would say absolutely NOTHING to anyone.


Except us, that is.
Go on, bore us with some of that evidence

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Bron · 07/04/2003 21:35

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susanmt · 07/04/2003 22:47

OOOOhh yes go on, bore us ....

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