what would you do?

[chockywocky]

found a message on dh facebook sent mail from an ex gf saying she was sorry she couldnt take his calls!! i feel sick, she lives in Greece, he came clean about her recently as she had written on his wall commenting on our dc being cute.We recently had another baby. He did some business trips to portugal last year, OMG, slap me am I over-reacting??

Portugal is a very long way from Greece, but you know that.

Have you asked him why he has been calling her?

Firstly Portugal is not near Greece. Unless you're not sure that he actually went to Portugal, drop that line of enquiry.

All you can do is confront him. I doubt that if there was anything dodgy going on she'd be writing on his wall. Just ask, and see if you feel he's telling the truth then or not. I communicate with exes, but that doesn't mean anything's going on. Don't put 2 and 2 together and come up with 5 just yet.

OP - I hope you are OK. Did you talk to your husband?