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Help me!!! My former partner is mentally disturbed!!!

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Freddythefrog · 14/02/2009 08:22

Help!!!What shall I do apart from walk away? I have had problems once again with my former partner. I found out this week she sent one of my private messages to a friend of mine behind my back.

I only realise this 2 weeks later after I caught up with him. If I had known she had sent this message I would have dumped her on the spot. Also in this message she says a pack of lies about me. Lies that she said later admitted were untrue, and now she is using them again. She used it previously in Nov.2008.

But after she sent this message she kept on sponging off me, she chose to go on holiday with me which I paid for 80%. She did not stand in my way to suggest me buying her gifts, presents etc. How does this woman have morals?

The woman is mentally disturbed, unbalance, unstable, etc etc etc. Need I go on?

OP posts:
cheerfulvicky · 14/02/2009 09:08

Morning everyone. Don't feed it, now
Happy Valentines Day!

warthog · 14/02/2009 09:08

yes, happy valentines day!

TooFoggy · 14/02/2009 13:40

Just in case you are not a troll;
keep evidence like all letters (including envelopes) and texts and if you can record phonecalls.
Distance yourself as much as you are able.

Hopefully there will be no evidence to keep, but if she does turn out to be a bunny boiler you will have covered your back. Remember also to inform the police of any threats.

drlove8 · 14/02/2009 14:35

just b glad ur well rid!, dont respond to her at all, if anyoneone mentions her just say you hope she gets the help she needs and leave it at that! , hope you remember that not all women are the same. just because you've been unlucky enough to meet one boiler doesnt mean you will again!, id agree with informing the police, even just get them to note it, so they know there's something not quite right with her. i know a girl who is very unballenced who kicked her BF out and accused him of mental abuse to "their son", what happened was man had two sons from previous relationship, and she had one herself(father not involved), his two boys came to visit after school one day and had too leave early as they had swimming club(paid for by their mother BTW), the GF went off on one shouting and swearing about him leaving "their son" (her son) out! and poorXXX being so upset ,it being mental abuse. MAN did not live with her, had his own flat, and brought his boys around too meet GF and her wee boy! did a quick exit, not quick enough though , turns out she was pregnant ,and had wee boy she wouldnt let man see unless he was with her. got pregnant again when man and her got back together briefly, and kicked him out againwhen he refused to stop seeing/paying for his first two kids!now there is two wee boys who will grow up thinking their daddy is some kind of monster who didnt want them, when it breaks his heart that he cant see them. she only put his name on one of the birth certificates and is refusing dna on new baby.so he has no rights over his kids. whole family are gutted, he at least set up bank savings for the wee ones so when he does eventually get to see them he can give them something. not the same as helping them grow up, but at least hes thinking of them.. have found out the GF moved around the corner from her first childs dad, and points him out to the wee boy, when he's out with his four OTHER kids... wonder why he'd a dotting dad to 4 and not the first? .. very very

TooFoggy · 14/02/2009 15:23

Good grief!

I agree, not all women are like that, dont let it put you off!

BlueSapphire77 · 14/02/2009 15:26

All women are like that especially if you're a troll Love it

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