I've finally got closure and i feel truly liberated.....

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

just needed to share my new found sense of relief and happiness!
i can now truly move forward!

is this with your exbf (saw your other thread) ? I know alot of people always say no contact etc but I actually know for myself I like to get things off my chest.

I have always felt better when I have told them how I feel.

Funnily enough I don't usually do that with female friends.

morning!
yes it is!
i had been happy to let things lie and just walk away as i hate confrontations
and yes would have maintained no contact
but was shocked and angry to find his pic popping up on a dating site
obviously looking for his next booty call
and obviously a name changed me fitted his bill!
scl hope this week's date goes ahead will look on your thread later

can you link to your other thread please?

warthog its not mine actually
theres bits n pieces on lone parents
have chipped in on various dating/men threads
they're all current as there seem to be a fair old few of us doing this dating thing at the mo...grrr!!

ah right. sounds like you're well shot. at least your guy wasn't a vampire...

LOL!
what are you trying to say warthog
that sounds positively sinister

What happened? What did you do or say? Or was it just the passing of time?

loonies out there

oh jesus i missed that one warthog must go thru it
First Liffey
he is one of those emotionally unavailable men who unfortunately preys on a certain type of woman
it just fizzled out a while back and i felt relieved as i no longer heard from him
having just decided to give online dating another whirl i log in after one day of new membership to find that there he is checking me out
so i messaged him and told him exactly what i thought and what i should have said ages ago
he messaged me back
and has now taken himself offsite
so thats a result!!

oh good. very satisfying!

yes it is
lets just hope hes not logging on to a dating site near you!
but its just proved to me how important it is to get things off your chest
and then draw a line under it
closure is truly liberating!!