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I urinated on my partner during sex

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SlightlyEmbarassedRegular · 05/04/2005 09:12

I didn't mean to, now i am scared to have an orgasm again. Everytime i come close i can feel a small amount of urine dribbling out and stop myself. Sorry for the intimate details but i am worried. Does this happen to anyone else and what can i do to prevent it. Do i need my bladder tightened?

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swiperfox · 05/04/2005 09:14

are you sure its wee? women can 'ejaculate'

misdee · 05/04/2005 09:15

did he notice?

he may have enjoyed it.

munz · 05/04/2005 09:15

lol for u! OMG i'd die of embaressment, althou I can't talk cos I alawys giggle! lol. have u done the pelvic floor thingys?

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SlightlyEmbarassedRegular · 05/04/2005 09:15

yes a total incontrolable wee, he was covered in it and it stank, pmsl

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HappyDaddy · 05/04/2005 09:16

I'm sure your partner is understanding. I know I would be. It's one of those things.
At least he didn't fart in your face...

Blossomhill · 05/04/2005 09:18

TMI please????

munz · 05/04/2005 09:18

OMG, was it much?

lol@HD! ahy at least it wasn't the other end!

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SlightlyEmbarassedRegular · 05/04/2005 09:20

Oh he is understanding, told me not to worry, said he was flattered he had taken my wee games virginity. I just cant have sex anymore as i know it will happen again, need to do something to stop it, before we invest in plastic sheeting.

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expatinscotland · 05/04/2005 09:22

Make sure your bladder is empty before sex. And start doing your Kegel exercises. This is pretty normal after having kids.

Tissy · 05/04/2005 09:22

If it hasn't happened before, why should it happen again? Why don't you just make a point of having a wee before sex next time?

Fio2 · 05/04/2005 09:23

rickman has just msn'd me and asked if this is me?

anyway, dont worry it doesnt matter, it is only piss

cod · 05/04/2005 09:23

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cod · 05/04/2005 09:23

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Toothache · 05/04/2005 09:23

Can't you just make sure you go to the toilet before sex?? I know that orgasm feel more intense if you have a fuill bladder. My pelvic floor is a bit dodgy sometimes!! DH and I only ever have sex in bed at night.... and I always emoty my bladder before bed. Just shows you how spontaneous we are eh??

marthamoo · 05/04/2005 09:25

Would you be too embarrassed to see your GP about this? It sounds like your pelvic floor is a bit knackered (join the club) and maybe your GP can suggest things to help. Stopping having sex is going to cause more long term problems with your dh than weeing on him..and you worrying about it is going to stop you getting any enjoyment out of it yourself. Your dh sounds very sweet - bite the bullet and see your GP: they will have heard it all before, guaranteed.

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SlightlyEmbarassedRegular · 05/04/2005 09:32

No, i can tell it will happpen again, it nearly does and i have to stop. I have also emptied my bladder, before and during, it still leaks a bit. I think i need medical attention.

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marthamoo · 05/04/2005 09:34

Make an appointment with your GP - go on, pick up the 'phone, you can do it.

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SlightlyEmbarassedRegular · 05/04/2005 09:57

I've made an appointment, thanks

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