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Technical question: can a woman "fuck" a man?

17 replies

Fizzfiend · 06/01/2009 18:16

So...can you say "I want to fuck you?" Ha ha, sorry for such a trite question but my friend and I were arguing about it today. She said only men could fuck women, and not vice versa.

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LuckySalem · 06/01/2009 18:17

hmmm I spose technically no but the sentiment is the same.

lilacclaire · 06/01/2009 18:17

She could have a strap on ? ouch!

memoo · 06/01/2009 18:19

Of course she can!!!

preggydonuts · 06/01/2009 19:42

Totally if they are laying there with a big old stiffy!!!!!

Goober · 06/01/2009 19:43

Yes she can.

FromGirders · 06/01/2009 19:44

DH says that is rubbish, of course women can fuck men. For example, if he came home from work and told me a colleague "had fucked him", I'd object!!!

kormaisforlifenotjustchristmas · 06/01/2009 19:45

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AnyFucker · 06/01/2009 22:07

korma, bloody brilliant !!

kormaisforlifenotjustchristmas · 06/01/2009 22:10

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Cainyp909 · 07/08/2024 16:03

I'm gonna be honest idc what any woman says and call me sexist if you want, it's basic biology and how the body works. A woman is not fucking a man during standard p in the v sorry it's just and it's nothing to do about the movement either eat the facts as a snack

Opentooffers · 07/08/2024 16:12

There is disagreement over the definition of a fuck. Depends on your pov, taken as just a crude way of saying sex, sure its possible.

WrylyAmused · 07/08/2024 18:16

Yes, unless you're a dinosaur that believes only men are "active" and only women are "passive/receiving" rather than that sex is something which you both mutually are/can be active in.

@Cainyp909 I would call that attitude sexist, yes. My beliefs are very different.

Lexigone · 07/08/2024 18:24

It's just slang for having sex with someone.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fuck

Fuck - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fuck

Cainyp909 · 07/08/2024 18:33

@WrylyAmused and I don't care what your beliefs are you can argue with biology as much as you want and you can call me I'm a sexist all you want, but I'll find you meant to say I'm a realist because a man penetrates a vagina it's not the other way around as much as you want to argue facts don't care about your feelings buddy

Slikjec · 04/06/2025 13:21

@Cainyp909 I don’t know if you’re a man or a woman but I think you’re not logical because If “penetration”= fucking with that logic anything that enters you, for example a lens in your eye, is fucking you, and no one in their right mind thinks like that. Most agree that “fucking” is sex, so yes women can of course fuck men when she’s the active one and on top.

Slikjec · 04/06/2025 13:40

@Cainyp909 Nobody is a virgin by your logic, let’s apply it. “Penetrating”=fucking, right out of our mothers womb we penetrated our clothes, now I guess our clothes got fucked and none of us is virgin. You took medicine and it entered you, you got fucked. Absolutely ridiculous, I can’t imagine the amount of mental gymnastics it takes for you to think like that, just in sex. While every other mechanical dynamic is different. You got manipulated 😂😂

AltitudeCheck · 04/06/2025 16:16

In common use, being fucked implies someone is passive (or being penetrated), fucking implies they are active / doing something to someone, so while stereotypes about how people have sex may imply men fuck/ woman are fucked that isn't always the case.

If a man was (for example) blindfold and restrained at an orgy and a woman was on top having PIV I think most people would agree she was fucking him.

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