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Oh $%&£!!!!!!!

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LoveMyGirls · 30/12/2008 21:17

My ex's sister has found me on fb and I'm not happy about it.

Ex hasn't seen dd1 for nearly 10yrs, he was abusive, violent and stalked me and eventually I got an injunction and moved further away.

Should I delete my fb so she can't find out more about me? I don't know why she has bothered to find me.

I'm worried this will open a can of worms and be a disaster.

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SparklyGothKat · 30/12/2008 21:25

you can block her and anyone else you wish to block and then make your profile 'private' so you don't come up in a search or on any of your friends profile. My profile is completely 'private' so no-one can find me, unless I find them

LoveMyGirls · 30/12/2008 21:31

Thanks, I can't believe I was stupid enough not to do that in the first place tbh.

I'm a bit shaken by it, I'm really happy after going through quite a lot when I was younger. I'm finally settled and happy.

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solidgoldstuffingballs · 30/12/2008 21:35

Was she horrible to you as well and/or did she take her brother's side? If she was never particularly toxic to you, her intentions might be sort-of benign ie she wonders if you are well and happy - but it's still probably a good idea to block her and change your settings to private.

LoveMyGirls · 30/12/2008 21:38

We got on to start with then when it went pear shaped she was on his side and did actually do some not nice stuff, the last time I bumped into her she was ok with me tbh but it was a long time ago. I don't know what she'd want to say to me now though.

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solidgoldstuffingballs · 30/12/2008 22:38

Better keep her at a distance then ie block and ignore.

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