I'm worried I won't know what to or that we'll both be so nervous we'll never have a sex life ever again

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dh is due to be circumcised in the next month or so.......his foreskin has become vvvvvvv tight so we haven't really had sex for a year or more. Now I'm worried that once he's been 'done' he will be too afraid to have sex, i'll be too scared to initiated anything incase he finds it uncomfortable or painful, or I'll be too tense and dry (sorry if tmi) to do it, or not be able to know what to do. Or dh will have decided i'm not attracted to me anymore and won't want to have sex with me even though i've been gagging for it for ages

gentle touches as it will be much more sensitive and lots of good quality lube.

Hey, if I could do it eight days after giving birth, second-degree tear and stitches, I'm sure you'll both be fine. Sorry, was that TMI?

More likely to be the opposite reaction. Brace yourself !!

oooooooooooooooooooooooohhhhhh i hope so

aw shame

you will need to TALK

which is not easy

he will need to ermmm check things are all in working order first I imagine, to get his confidence back - it might take him a while to get used to it

I'm sure that after a few sessions which have been not-painful he will start to feel more confident again

good luck!

Get lots of lubes - you can buy on line or at your nearest Ann Summers - and have a couple of drinks beforehand, and keep the mood silly-giggly-naughty for the first attempt.

would it have to be plain or could it be flavoured etc etc......getting so excited just can wait for the call (they said 2 months at most)

but what if he has gone so long without he's just not bothered???

DOes he want to have sex?

Have you discussed whether you want to do it after.

he says he does, ive told him i defo want to but
at the moment we don't do anything as even getting hard is painful......