is it ok to feel completely pissed off because...

[mothersmilk]

is it ok to feel completely pissed off because i havnt seen my dh all week because he's worked late and gone to work early since tuesday and tonight is the only night we will get to have some 'us' time and he's gone to see dss do a concert and i'll be looking after the kids and dss all weekend and then i probably wont see dh untill next friday is it wrong to feel so completely and utterly annoyed??? and am i a bad stepmother?

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Why didn't you go to the concert too?
Why will he not be helping with the kids at the w/end?

I can see why you are annoyed. However I can see why he's gone to the concert as well.

I fell your pain though, and it would totally piss me off too.

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YANB very U, but (as a wicked stepmother myself!) don't let any of the kids know, DSS will be loving having his Dad at his concert.

That said, DH needs to do half the work (at least) over the weekend. How about having lunch at a family restaurant to save you the cooking and clearing away?

yes it's ok to feel pissed off It's hard when you don't feel like you have quality time, even though it's for perfectly valid reasons.

Why won't you have time with him on Saturday and Sunday nights?

I think yanbu to be completely pissed off. It's not like he's gone out on the lash with his mates. A bit pissed off is acceptable.

yeah guess so im not ther cause we have a three month old ds who i refuse to give a bottle to my folt i think

Why can't he help at the w/end?