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dh is such a pig

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angelwithwings · 10/12/2008 12:35

I have been married for 3 years and I am ready to leave him

for about 12 months now his drinking has become worse

he is arrogant, abusive(mentally) and a bully
recently I have been standing up to him

we do not sleep in the same bed, our sex life is a big fat zero

I have asked him to seek help but he refuses he has problem

What happened to the man I first married?

OP posts:
HolyGuacamole · 10/12/2008 12:43

Wow. Maybe only he knows what happened to the man that you married. It's good tho, that you are getting to the point of standing up for yourself and deciding to make changes for yourself. You can only try and help someone so much.

lilacclaire · 10/12/2008 18:38

Did something happen 12 months ago when he started drinking more?
Does he know you are ready to leave?

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