I have a crush and it's exciting. But I feel as though it's wrong.

[TheDevilWearsPrimark]

Surely not?

I'm mid divorce. I know I shouldn't flirt but I can't help it.

This man is gorgeous, he's a year younger than me (27) and so lovely. I enjoy walking past the shop he works in as he always pops out to say hello or winks through the window.

He's a gardener and a tree sugeon, he works in the local garden/florists part time.

I feel like a bloody teenager.

Someone tell me

-it's all fine and healthy and innocent
or
-it's bad and I need to start dealing with real life rather than fantasy.

It's all fine and healthy.

why do you think it's wrong?

it's all fine and healthy and innocent......ENJOY!!!!!

If your both single then what could be wrong?

That's a great feeling isn't it?

It's fine and healthy and normal. You're single and you're exercising your "muscles" again, very much like being in your teens and trying out those feelings for the first time. It might stay a crush, or you might decide it's worth getting to know him as a person. Either way is fine - enjoy the freedom to imagine!

Sounds fine to me.

It feels so right that it ought to feel wrong. I hope you see what I mean.

I realy am having those flutters. It's been a while.

it's all fine and healthy and innocent.

get a pic so we can oggle him too

ENJOY IT . Take full advantage while you can...

oooohh I love a good flutter story and I think with everything your soon to be exDH put you through you're more than entitled to be sascheying (sp?) past a shop window and enjoying a wink and a grin

enjoy it all and fully agree with Mamazon - get us a stalkerish photo so we can all have a swatch!!!!!

I'm not sure stalkerish pap shots are the smoothest thing to do.

I'll continue to smile idly at him.

fair enough - I have been crisiticised for being a tad over enthusiastic before