im sure im not the only 1 but for the past 4 months sex has been a no no it hurts when we do and now im kinda scared to try cos it hurt in the past and im all tense. its got to the stage even thinking about it scares me. im 36 weeks pregnant and my dp has had to put up with this for a while and i was wandering if any1 knew a way so that it wouldnt hurt so much.