Gaaa, tell me I'm better off without him!

[sportscandy]

we were together 15 years, been separated for 9 months, and ex has dc every other weekend. We are still friends, and for a while we still slept together now and again (blush). I stopped it tho, cos it was just wrong, he is with someone else, and it just felt "empty" iykwim. Today he made it obvious he wanted to sleep with me, and it is such a head fuck, pardon the pun. He tells me we have this "bond" that he can't totally sever. I have missed him every single day, but I think know he doesn't miss me and only wants me for sex. what do I dooooooooooooo?

you know the answer

Kick him in the nuts.
He is having a great time, fucking two women,so of course he wants to pursue the 'bond'.

Twat.

is there another thread on this somewhere ?

moondog puts it so well

yep, both threads have the same answers!

What about you? Do you think you'll ever ever get to 'moving on' all the while he is giving you the odd bonk here and there?

Move on, find another guy, make a relationship and make space for someone else in your life. All the while he's still in the picture and you are having sex, you won't even be open to thinking about moving on. He's blocking you from recovery.

fellas will tell you anything if they think they might get to dip their wick. agree with moondoog.

do you really want sloppy seconds after he's been with his girlfriend?