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lesbien relationship

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tater · 06/11/2008 23:56

i am in a 3 year lasbien relationship 9mos ago i gave birth to our baby now i am having all sorts of mixed feelings about my sexuality i love her very much and i want us to work but i dont know where these feelings are coming from

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LoveBeingAMummy · 07/11/2008 23:13

What sort of feelings do you mean?

alleve · 07/11/2008 23:14

Lesbian, if you were one you would know how to spell it?

suwoo · 07/11/2008 23:15

great minds think alike alleve.

alleve · 07/11/2008 23:15

Stupid

beanieb · 07/11/2008 23:18

Maybe you are bisexual? Are you worrying that you just don't fancy women or you just don't fancy her?

UncleHester · 07/11/2008 23:32

tater, I think the first year with a new baby is very, very hard on many relationships. It took me and my girlfriend a good couple of years to get back on track after our child was born (I am female, by the way - ignore the Halloween name that I haven't bothered to change back yet!).

Maybe something is shifting in your sexuality, but I suspect that the place to start is with what is going on in your relationship. Are you in conflict with dp? Are you finding it hard to reconnect to each other sexually? Do you think relationship counselling might help?

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