Oh. My. God. I. Need. To. Scream. Tis all that is left seeing as murder is so frowned upon..........<<sigh>>

[PsychoAxeMurdererMum]

one word.

all it is, is on word.

and I hope I need to say nothing more......

AUNTY

arghhhhhhhhh

cuddle

what you are going to be one?

Is this Aunty on the subject of Mother, or just generally?

Voodoo doll?

It's not fair.

and now she has upset the children too

"ooh, megs is so cantancerous, she is not like you were as a child. what on earth happen??"

all that megs did was refuse a photograph. I mean, a photo is not such a big deal, by seriously, imply that she is a damaged child and base her entire personality on one lack of photo

would you like us to put a hex on her?

have you seen her today?? whatever for??

i am lsot
couldnt you have just takjen an unhappy picture and given it to her and tutted?

aunty has been insisting on taking me and the children out for months.....she has got all 'finicky' on having to see them, cos she knows I will do all I can to ensure they don't have to.

I finally gave in....worn down by constant coomments, and we went to Moors Valley (one place the children love so I figured it 'safe').

Nope, not safe, she belittled them all day, made snide comments, commmented on my parenting (I was Not. Letting. It. Get. To. Me.), and that was wrong......and then....

she threatened to smack Max, for him not eating all of his food.

and I am so upset I have even lost my halloween hats

and tomorrow is mothers birthday and I have to go there too.......

at least Mother is short.......I never inflict more than 30mins on the children of her.

((sorry, am feeling a tad sorry for myself, can ya tell))

oh, kew, hexes would be wonderful.

thankyou...

did she eat all of hers. Perhaps you could offer to smack her when she doesn't next time.

Ouch!! On the plus side, now you have no obligation to have to see her in the near future, as you have done your duty

Big glass of wine and relax!

I think the time for adult solidarity is well gone. Group hug for DC and reassurance that they are all fab and that Aunty is mean and nasty.

Poor you.

Voodoo doll and Kew's hex called for, I think.

You don't have to go to your Mum's tomorrow y'know. You honestly don't.

I'd have no compunction about cutting these two completely out of your lives; they have done more than enough emotional harm.

Don't know if you've ever read the Stately Homes thread but you may want to post there as well.

personally i've stopped being nice to asshole family members just because they are family. don't see her again. really. you don't deserve that shit.

we have had a hug.

and a huge sorry from me for inflicting her on them

and I booked up xmas santa train for them all when I was there, so they have that to look forward to (costs £9.50 each {even the adults get a pressie tho}) so I feel as tho something went well.

they are all feeling very close now in their joint bitching.....

and they feel very sorry for me having been bought up by her!

and DH has come home with said wine for me (I kept texting screams to him), and has promised them hagaan daaz icecream for tonight.

attilla, I did venture into the stately homes thread on the first threrad, and felt a wee bit as tho I shouldn;t be there. not sure why TBH, and was nothing to do with lack of welcome as ally90 was and has been lovely, I just felt awkward IYGWIM.

I think I do need to go back tho......I cannot go thro this each week!

still downing wine, if anyone is interested....

I have found my hats tho-->

and the males in my life just knocked the wine over playing with balls in the house.

all the men

do they never grow up and beyond the need of playing with balls

jeez psycho. must you see the poisonous aunty often? sorry am a bit slow to catch on but i sense you have ishoos. don't feel you have to rehash it all though.
i shall hex the men in your life too if you like?
has to be said i did carry on visiting my poisonous father through the mistaken belief that i couldn't deny the DDs a grandfather but youknow. it really wasn't worth it. couldn't bear it so don't any more.
have more wine.

your aunty may be my mother

disaster........I would like not to see her......but she rings me and bugs me and generally makes the guilt trips far to big to handle so I give in.

she bought me up......my mother is schizophrenic....not a great childhood and aunty is/was very controlling wcich leads to problems.

hallowean.....

will get on with the hexes. and stick pins in the footballs voodoo dolls.
guilt not good.

Did aunty cause the hat loss?!?

Lmao @ cantankerous Meg... she was the hormonal 14yr old grunting version today then