unhappily married - time to do somethign aobut it

[ShyandRetiring]

enough moaning.
got to get a life for myself.
anyone been in/ or currently in same position?

and no i can't leave him, he wont go. debt ridden enough without rocking that boat.

i was thinking amateur dramatics.
came on with great resolve, however cannot find local amateur dramatics.

wise words needed

Sounds like a good idea. Get out of the house, get a hobby etc let the marriage bumble along for a bit. If you feel better about yourself the marriage might even improve.

Local choir? Charity work?

You could try Relate too? Although not heard great success stories from them.

i can't sing!

do some work on yourself and really find out what you want.

It could just be a simple thing like keeping up with friends/the news.
Give yourself a nice routine just for you - beauty treatments or something (home ones if money tight).

For me it is running - this is my time to allow myself to think as much as i want - and feel good about myself too.

good ideas
thanks

Do you work if not maybe a evening bar job or something its a great way to socialise :-D

Hope it works out for you