Advice needed please...
Dp and I have been together for 5 and a half years. Dd is 4 months old and we have been living together for 4 years.
Atm it is like we are just friends living in a house together who have a child together. He sleeps on the sofa every night, we dont really talk to each other, once dd is in bed he sits on the computer and I have the lap top on the sofa until we go to bed. We dont kiss or cuddle anymore and havent had sex in over a year - The night dd was conceived!
He is away for a week on a work course and I got quite upset when he left. Im not sure if it is just because I dont want to be on the house on my own though.
I have serious trust issues from a previous relationship and wont let him go out on his own. We have nearly split up several times but I beg him back. I also get really bad PMT and take it out on him every month. Poor bloke, not sure why he puts up with me!
So the question is - How do we get out of this rut? Is it worth trying? I would love another child in the next few years and to get married one day. He wants neither - He doesnt believe in marriage and is happy with one child.