What do I do about this?? Yes the farm makes our only source of income and I help on the farm and run a household and three young kids. But my husband just doesn't seem to care about anything to do with the home. It isn't 'a priority'. He leaves his dishes on the table, crumbs on the floor and bench, clothing on floor, could walk past the rubbish bags for days without taking them to the bin. Lets the recycling bottels and papers build up until I have to ask again. Does not seem to be able to see anything that needs doing without me having to ask. Dishes could be piled up for two days and unless I ask him to unpack the dishwasher, they would stay that way. I do all the tidying, washing, folding, organise kids for school with lunches, readers, notes etc. I mow all the lawns, to the garden, get the mail and do all household repairs. If I want it done I have to do it myself. Or ask and hope that one day in the next month it will get done. It usually does not unless I continue to ask. We have discussed this issue continuously over the years and he openly says he has no idea why he is like he is. That does not help me though.
Anyone else have one of these husbands??