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Has anyone ever though of sleeping with another women?

443 replies

sep1712 · 07/10/2008 17:39

Am i the only person that would truely admit to thinking about sleeping with another women?
I'm happly married to a great man, that can keep me happy in every way but would love to try a women if only once before i die!
Do you think i'm strange?

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NomDePlume · 08/10/2008 17:42

Hmm, some people have made some interesting points on this thread but now it appears to have disintegrated into pouting and flirting (or outright propositioning!).

Jazzicatz · 08/10/2008 17:44

Some of you take things so seriously - I am not about to jump into bed witha fellow MN. Just think its a funny thread!!!!!!!!

ShhootMe · 08/10/2008 17:46

Gad no.
Could have a few times.
Slept with my female gay friend once (just sharing a bed, nothing happened) - she was and is absolutely luscious, but I wasnt remotely tempted.
However while I am safely namechanged I will say that right now I dont fancy sex with ANYONE (unfortunately for my lovely DP)

ButWhyMum · 08/10/2008 17:47

Agreed NomDePlum, they should be ashamed of themselves

Jazzicatz · 08/10/2008 17:53
whoopsididitagain · 08/10/2008 18:02

would love a go why not tried most othe rthings

lol i think i was kinda proposistioned when i was 17 by a lady i baby sat for she was a mate and very sexy but i let it go over my head

ButWhyMum · 08/10/2008 18:14
ButWhyMum · 08/10/2008 18:15

I was always rubbish at flirting...

wannatryit · 08/10/2008 18:16

name says it all really. been thinking about this a lot for a long time but alas no opportunity

Jazzicatz · 08/10/2008 18:17

Not sure if I could actually go through with it but have always thought it would be fun to try - even if its just the once!

wannatryit · 08/10/2008 18:20

think the drunken fumble is the way to go.

brookeslay · 08/10/2008 19:03

It a strange one I dont go around checking out girls. Though I dont think anything is weird about it. If people did want to try it out I wouldnt put an issue on whether they were female just whether you liked them. Though i would have a liason with a women I dont feel i could ever fall in love with one. So DP is stuck with me..lol

brookeslay · 08/10/2008 19:10

p.s I do know of website and its for straight, bi- curious and bi sexual and lesbian women .
If anyone is interested i don`t want to offend anyone so i could tell them the name via email. It is also for married women but its not there to deal with threesomes ( a common male fantasy).
Its freindship based with a twist so to speak.

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 19:12

Brookeslay, i'm the same, i don't go eyeing up women, just fancy a bit of the other just once in my life. Defo a drunken fumble.

jazzicatz and wannatryit, do you fancy poppin a advent on this thread just for a laugh, and so all us interested females know what your like ha ha

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quicky · 08/10/2008 19:50

brookeslay - can you email it to me at [email protected]

Just out of interest of course

billysitch · 08/10/2008 19:58

OH YES I WOULD HAVE!

Had a few near misses in the past and woke up thinking, hmm was she hitting on 'me'? Damn it if I had not been so daft drunk probably would have realised.

Now very happily married and expecting another baby so me thinks this has passed me by.

Shucks

wannatryit · 08/10/2008 20:03

Brookeslay, would like website but don't want to put my addy up.

Sep, would be fun but would get lots of disapprovals on her me thinks.

Also don't eye up women but if the opportunity arose......

quicky · 08/10/2008 20:03

God there is so much I wish I'd done before I got married and had kids

ButWhyMum · 08/10/2008 20:08

Hi Brookeslay, please send the link to [email protected]

Just for research purposes you understand...

quicky · 08/10/2008 20:08

Have to say that I am glad of this thread. Its calmed me about being curious

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 20:12

wannatryit, i gave up worry about what people (on here and rl) think of me a long time ago.
After all us married mums don't get out enough to have any gossip in our lives!!
go on it'd be a giggle. Your still interested in the website though .

Quicky, Theres loads we havn't done but i'd still give it all up to be happly married with our children, its great. Your dreams are still achievable!!

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Jazzicatz · 08/10/2008 20:13

I don't think its in the least bit unusual to be curious , I suppse its more so if you actually do something. But my philosohy is to try everything once - you don't have to do it again if you don't like it

quicky · 08/10/2008 20:15

Oh yeah sep - don't get me wrong i wouldn't change my life (DH and kids) for anything just wish that I'd been more experimental when i was younger.

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 20:15

I'm with you Jazzi, try anything once aslong as no-one gets hurt!

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quicky · 08/10/2008 20:16

Yeah I'm all for the try everything once way of thinking. I'm always saying how can you know you don't like something if you've never tried it

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