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Has anyone ever though of sleeping with another women?

443 replies

sep1712 · 07/10/2008 17:39

Am i the only person that would truely admit to thinking about sleeping with another women?
I'm happly married to a great man, that can keep me happy in every way but would love to try a women if only once before i die!
Do you think i'm strange?

OP posts:
mampam · 09/10/2008 14:19

Now there's a thought! Think I may need to go for a cold shower now!!

mampam · 09/10/2008 14:23

Sorry momentary lapse of composure. Can't believe I just said that on MN!!

ButWhyMum · 09/10/2008 14:26

Easy to get carried away with this thread eh mampam?lol

I take it you?re ?curious? also?

mampam · 09/10/2008 14:36

About 10 years ago struck up a sort of friendship with a girl, just had a drink with her if we bumped into one another on a night out and a boogey on the dance floor that kind of thing. One night she started getting up close and personal on the dancefloor and was seriously flirting with me. Unfortunately my friends saw what was happening and started taking the piss so I just moved away from her. She never spoke to me again after that.

Have seriously been kicking myself ever since!! Had lots of fantasies about what could have happened though!!

I asked my DH last night after reading this thread, if he would ever let me sleep with a woman if I wanted to satisfy my curiosity and he said YES!!!

itsmydream · 09/10/2008 14:40

man, its gone mad again,
i dont think i would ever use an escort but only thing i could think of where to meet secretly/guaranteed meet up.
I would need to fancy then first and they couldnt be some minger as they say. (sorry mingers).

Open that wine girls !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

after dc bed of course.

LostHorizon · 09/10/2008 14:42

Of course you galz now face the minor admin challenge, known to us blokes for ever, of figuring out who's up for a bit of girl on girl filth just from looking at her.

Girlies are generally very good at looking like butter wouldn't melt in your mouth. I can't really help you here.

I can disclose that a woman's eyebrows and bush are always the same colour, if that's of any help. I mean, if it's important to you that her collar and cuffs match, it's possible to find this out before spending any money. Credit crunch, thrift and all that.

HTH!

quicky · 09/10/2008 14:42

Do you think the dc would protest if I sent them to bed early

Jazzicatz · 09/10/2008 14:43

Well I am working again tonight

itsmydream · 09/10/2008 14:45

lost - mine same, bit mad but room for improvement.

quicky - is 5pm too early ha ha.

mampam · 09/10/2008 14:45

LOL at collars and cuffs matching!!

Not sure I would seek out a woman to do the deed with, but if the situation arose........

Rhubarb · 09/10/2008 14:45

Can I just pop in with a wee warning? There was a Mumsnetter who did have a webcam sex thing going on with another Mumsnetter and it didn't end well....

iheartginashoes · 09/10/2008 14:47

Quicky... I'm in Scotland too

quicky · 09/10/2008 14:48

what happened rhubarb? God, i'm nosey!

ButWhyMum · 09/10/2008 14:50

Rubarb - do tell...

Rhubarb · 09/10/2008 14:51

They just went a bit far on threads and it was all a bit too gross for us sensitive folk, especially when her dh accused us of being frigid. And of course the other Mumsnetter's dh didn't know.

Oh there has been another too, again the partners didn't know.

Cheating is cheating whether you are the same sex or not.

quicky · 09/10/2008 14:51

iheartginashoes - ah so you have the joy of staying in the shower as long as the hot water allows too!!

Where about - again for nothing more than nosiness

Jazzicatz · 09/10/2008 14:52

Surely if you were going to get up to something you wouldn't do it through MN?

iheartginashoes · 09/10/2008 14:53

Glasgow Quicky

ButWhyMum · 09/10/2008 14:56

I don't think it hurts to talk about your fantasy?s and if you have an open relationship with your DH, and he doesn?t mind (or even gets a kick out of it) then there?s no harm in it?horses for courses

I?m single by the way.

quicky · 09/10/2008 14:56

iheart - the best shopping

Rhubarb · 09/10/2008 14:57

Jazz - really? I've been on here 6 years and we've had lots of scandals involving Mumsnetters of both sexes meeting through Mumsnet and then involving other Mumsnetters in their seedy exploits.

You'd think they would do it in private wouldn't you?

iheartginashoes · 09/10/2008 14:57

You here too?

Rhubarb · 09/10/2008 14:58

ButWhyMum, perhaps but not on a parenting forum. 'Tis rather distasteful, no?

Jazzicatz · 09/10/2008 14:59

Rhubarb - yes I remeber some of them in the time I have been on MN. Always amazes me!!

quicky · 09/10/2008 15:00

Agree butwhymum. It really doesn't hurt to talk about your fantasy's and DH has done his "wanted to do it before I die" moment (that I won't go into) and this is my "before I die" thing - each to their own.