I dont want to come on and moan here but i am on my own and my sister isn't answering her phone.
My dp just came in off the 10.07pm bus, he has been out sinse 1.45pm bus, he went out to watch the football. none of this i have a problem with btw.
He was with a friend who only reciently (sunday passed) spit up with his partner. They were our friends. Have been together for 6 years and i was friends with the girl for a lot longer.
ANYWAY he called me at about 9 saying he was catching the bus, would i like anythinig brought in to eat. I said just some aero bubbles(lol) and we need dogfood.
Sooo he came in steaming drunk, and lay on the sofa and fell asleep (within ten minutes). I said ' why dont you go to bed and sleep' He started shouting and bawling at me, saying he just had a good night why am i ruining it blablabla, i just said he should go to bed??
He covered his face with a cushion from the sofa, so i asked him to stop being ignorant, and he said to me that i was a crazy bitch just like 'name' (our friend thats partner just left her) I was like WHAT THE FECK and puled the pillow off his face and asked him what he meant by that.
I was kneeling at the side of sofa when i pulled the pillow away and he sat up and pushed me to the floor, lay on top of me and held his forarm over my neck, untill i gagged.
Then went back to the sofa, lay down and covered his head with the pillow again.
I stood up and said 'get out' and he said no, so i said well i am taking ds and going. he said fine. I went and packed a bag, came through to say he better be gone by the time i am back in the mroning, he grabbed my hair and threw me to the floor again. My face is all red and my nose is bleeding, my head is banging from the hair pulling and cracking on the wooden floor.
I kicked him, where it hurts for a man, i know i shouldnt have, but i was on my back on the floor and he was over me, it was the first reaction i had. He walked out the house. but he has left his bank card, mobile, wallet, keys all here on my unit.
I also havent heard the security door buzzer going off/ but hes been out about 30 mins. he was really drunk, like slurring his words drunk.
Our ds is 8 months old. he has left before and we are only just getting back on track. He lives 30 miles away but was planning on moving in here again - he moved out when we split up before.