Does your DH/DP paw, grope and try it on with you most nights? but if YOU ever try it on hes compleletly oblivious??

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This is how the other evening went,

Me ' Im going to bed'

DH (sat on floor pissing about witht his stupid racing car thing) 'yea, nite'

Me- 'you not coming to bed?'

Him 'im not tired'

Me - (bloody seductively might I add) 'me neither'

Him 'oh right you gonna read your book'

me -

humphs off upstairs....

10 mins later I shout DH,

he comes upstairs, im in bed,

Me 'can i have a goodnight kiss'

he pecks me on the cheek

so i snog him, pull him onto me, we have a passionate snog and he get up and says night.

Next morning he is genuinly GUTTED that I was up for it and he didn't notice!! And he goes into a mood because hes wanted some for ages!!!

He then starts talking about 'code words' for if I'm in the mood!!

WTF???

pmsl,

not quite!

Sounds a bit like my DP.

Thick as poo !

What's the racing car thing?? Heh - soz, immaterial. Just wondered.

Sounds familiar

haha what a wally!

Its this remote control car he bought, that you build and customize. Not a kids one (pah ) but one where you connect it all up, costs a lot of money. Hate the thing.)

Heh heh - sort of sweet.

lol! DH is similar. Not with the pawing the rest of the time, but he is completely oblivious unless I say in Very Clear Words.

We had one day where I was fuming because he came home early, we had no children for a few hours.... and he spent the time fixing the wireless.

Ok, I wasn't clear about my intention, but the huffing and very very skimpy clothing should have at least made HIM think of it!

Yep, you have to make it VERY VERY CLEAR ie "fuck me big boy".

Hints and expecting him to read your mind (even when you stick your tongue down his throat) just won't cut it.

oh god yes, my ex was like this, sounds exactly the same actually...he also suggested code words which I said was ridiculous.

He then began asking if we could "play" whenever he wanted it I think he was trying to introduce it as a code word but I just found it irritating and it would be guaranteed to turn me right off.

Thank god he's my ex, I'm getting annoyed just thinking about it

No, because whenever a man did that in the dating stage he was out on his kiester quicker than you could say quick.

I don't like beign pawed or groped.

At.all.

No because if I want it I just say "Fancy a bit" or "Wanna shag." Real romantic I know.

Men are simple creatures you have to tell them plain and simple.

If my wife ever came onto me like that i would know she was in the mood, sounds like youre husband may be set minded in being dominate. Or he just stupid (no offence)

just out of interest toy23

who/what are the other 22 ??

toy23 was my age when i signed up (now 25).My wife is older than me and regular hear so im her toy.

ahh I see

lol