Hi all, i don't want this to be a book so please bear with me and i do appologise for it being so long(i have also name changed to protect friend).
A friend has been suspicous about her partner for a few years about him cheating on her on one off seperate occasions, I too have agreed with her suspicions but she never has concrete evidence to say anything to him, as she feels he would lie more or he would hide the evidence even more.She knows by his eyes when he lies about minor things like spending too much money so she feels she pretty much has him sussed.
They have 3 children of 9yrs,4yrs&5months.
On saturday night he went to a stag party and then was coming home, it was a private function that was hired till 2am so no need really to be going on to a club, but he then went on to a club without letting her know (she wasn't bothered) and she received a text at 3.35am saying on my way home,no taxi's. He then rolled in the door at 4.45am shouting "thank f**k i am home".
She found this very strange as he never says anything usually when he gets home, she thought he must have walked 3miles to get home. In the morning about 11am she tried to wake him to say it was a lovely day and she wanted to take kids out, she was told to get herself to f**k he was staying in bed. She proceded to open the bedroom curtains and window as the room stank and she took his dirty clothes from the side of the bed to wash them as they stank, as she sorted through his pockets she found a condom wrapper, she put the jeans in the wash as they were caked in dirt (she felt he had probably fell walking on the way home). Then she got to his white shirt not only was it dirty but it smelt of perfume and all up the right sleeve was covered in foundation, she said she felt sick at this point.
At 1pm sunday afternoon he eventually got up, she asked about the taxi situation and how he had got home. He said he waited on a taxi from 2.50pm till 3.30 in a taxi q and when he got to the front the security taxi staff said to him sorry mate thats us finished for tonight there are no more taxis, he said he then went a walk about town and had to top up his phone to phone a taxi company to pick him up at another part of the town and thats why he took so long to get home, she then said what were you doing crawling on you hands and knees about town as your clothes are filthy, he said he must have spilt his beer down his front, she then mentioned that there was foundation all down his sleeve his answer was well there are girls that go clubbing what are you trying to accuse me of, she then asked why he had shouted as he had come through the door, he said he was glad to be home. She then mentioned there was a wrapper in his pocket he said it must have been there for a while maybe when they were away for the weekend together.
I had my friend at mine all day yesterday and she was so upset she couldn't feed the baby i had to make a bottle of formula as she was in no state to even hold the baby. Some of the story does favour to him and i was saying she should not think the way she thinks about him, i then had an idea about telephoning the taxi company just to put her mind at rest about the whole situation. I phoned and asked why on sat night were the taxis stopped at 3.30pm as i was waiting in the taxi q, the office manager did not know what i was on about and took my number and said the security taxi staff member would call me back. An hour later a member of staff did and it was the man who was staffing the taxi q on sat night, he said there were three staff on that night and none of them finished till 5.10am until all the public had got a taxi that were in the q, the staff finish but the taxis continue to run all night and use that taxi rank till 8am.
My friend left my house at 6.30pm last night to go home. She has since phoned this morning to say that last night he folded the washing and bathed the baby, he has never bathed the other two kids when they were babies and never has he ever touched the washing in thier whole time together, she now feel this is a guitly concious, what do you all think? i don't think she should confront him just yet, i think if he has done anything she will be able to watch him squirm before working out if he has cheated on sat night as his behaviour will continue