anyone else's dh as bad as mine..... what can i do:?

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he never picks dc's up from any events, his excuse was i organised for them to do such and such I shoudl pick them up.

i try to put my foot down, said to him tonight, as soon as he came in from work, it is your turn, ds needs picking up at 9.45 pm.

DH has gone off to bed. Normally he can't drive cos he has had a drink..

i dont know what to do. i feel like i am in the wrong for being a harridan but it is nt fair.

What is your balance at home? are you equals in everything house work and money wise, or is he boss?

When you "organise" your childrens' "events", do you consult with DH at all? What are his working hours?

he is home at 5. now, after years of being home late.
he earns much more, i earn a quarter of him but although i do work everything else falls down to me, well apart from um, fixing things

mumsnet is pretty powerful you know. as soon as i had typed the first post, he was up, picking up ds
amazing.
even if i didnt have as many answers as i would have hoped, it still worked