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Found out Ex is engaged

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Sunshinestar7 · 01/11/2026 14:42

Found out my Ex is engaged.
We cut contact a year ago, he got with her 3 months after me. Part of me always hoped I would hear from him again. I don’t think I’ve ever truly moved on.
Should I message him to say congratulations?? Any advice what you would do?

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Error404FucksNotFound · 05/11/2026 13:17

TheRealSmurfette · 03/11/2026 22:09

WHY is he being cruel?! He’s done nothing wrong!

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I cant figure it out either.

He is being cruel by? Getting on with his life without running anything by his ex that he has no contact with for an entire year?

Anywherebuthere · 05/11/2026 13:20

Have a bit of self respect and stop trying to find a way back in. Move on in your own life.

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