Been dating for ten months. Both mid fifties and divorced for some years and both with adult children in their twenties.
Earlier today we popped into a local pub for a bite to eat. I'd just had minor surgery and was feeling huge relief and fancied a wee tipple as well. It was a busy Wetherspoons, Friday afternoon, loads of students and young people. The minute we sat down he could not take his eyes off four young women right in his line of vision. He commented as I noticed him staring, "oh look how she's almost wearing nothing, the top, it's backless, got no back at all" Then looking and looking. I looked around and four very pretty young girls sitting having fun. Yes a backless top. They all looked barely a day over 18. He then said "They look sooooo young. Like children... "
He stared and stared. Not long after they left. I only hope not because of him.
Then he said... "What shall we talk about then.... " He looked very embarrassed as I said nothing. I felt very uncomfortable.
A couple of weeks back we were out in a cafe and a group of girls came in, around 16 to 17 if not a bit younger at a guess. He stared and stared and said "Look at those teenage girls. I can watch exactly what's going on from where I'm sitting"
A few other times he has commented on teen clothing and how tight it is and done the staring thing.
Am I reading too much OK into this?