Husband said he could get a prettier woman than me

[Suzy25]

Hi everyone. My husband was in a bad mood and said something out of character. He said that he could get a prettier woman than me if he wanted and that he gets chatted up randomly when he’s out. He said he turns them down but I feel really insecure since he’s said this. Any ideas on why he said such a thing? Also how do I go about this? Thank you.

This.

I wouldn’t forgive that comment. And I can forgive quite a few things.

Oh, blah blah blah. The rowback means nothing OP, this is his ‘and now I’m going to twist what I said to make it sound like it was YOUR fault AND you should feel sorry for me’

Bullllllllllll-shit

Right, so you already called his bluff and know what the real problem is. That really would have been better included in the first post.

Personally, insecurity that makes someone lash out vindictively wouldn’t be a quality that I would want in a partner.

No. Just no. Don't forgive this. shudder

Unacceptable! My ex looked me in the eyes and said he wants to and will sleep with other women, he left, I packed all his shit and told him to stay with whatever woman he fucks. That’s a deal breaker

Jog on would be my response.

If my DH said that I’d tell him to F off and find one then

If you have kids I'd put him in last chance saloon - his insecurity is his problem to sort out not yours. If you don't have kids then tell him to fuck off and find one then.

To be honest, with this update, you both sound very superficial (and/or young?).

Oh, so now he twists it around and makes it 'your fault'.

What a pathetic toad he is.

What a nasty arsehole. Why are you with him?

This is really immature from both of you.

I’d say. Off you pop then..

Could she be jealous, just wondered about her saying about the v short shorts ! Have you got a figure she'd like ? I'd ignore her and continue to wear what y ou want .
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There's no need to be unpleasant.

Well there you are. His response to his own insecurity is to purposely try and bring your confidence down and make you insecure and it’s worked!

A manipulative and very unkind way of behaving.

The thing is looks wise everyone has always said I’m out of his league to him so he’s insecure.

So he doesn't trust you?

Otherwise why would he be insecure?

Same here. What a complete and utter arsehole. To think that is one thing but to say it is completely and utterly another thing.

This, really.

Your relationship has ground you down so much that you're questioning yourself rather than getting angry.

My response would be go and fucking find one then, and don't come back.

If that was true he’d never have said that to you

its definitely the opposite and he wants to put you down he wants to hurt you, kill your confidence …

always remember people attack your looks/appearance, cause they re jealous , truly envious of who you are !

you should’ve replied ”I could also find a bloke with a bigger cock than you”
men can be such twats.

Follow through with the divorce, he doesn't like you or respect you! He's a envious insecure man who will suck you of all your energy, life and happiness. These types of men covet beautiful women just to grind them down and make them feel ugly and insecure - be warned! He is showing you his true colours. Be very wise about how you proceed.

Remember even the most beautiful of women get cheated on and it's nothing to do with looks, it's opportunity, insecurity and ego.

Tell him he'll never get a crazier one and break his windscreen.

Do you get a lot of male attention? And do you think you are out of his league? No wonder he had a bit of a jab back and now you want a divorce. I feel a bit sorry for him.

What a nasty little man