Let me tell you what an absolute twat he is, and share your own tales of twattery

[Changingplace]

’D’H admitted an affair last year, I was in a bad financial spot at the time, didn’t have a permanent job and basically stuck, for that and various stupid reasons I decided I had to stay put and ended up giving him a second chance.

Had an inkling he was in touch with her again, when you know you know, and am now in new job so I’d been reassessing in general anyway but hadn’t said anything outright.

Yesterday I was out for the afternoon- got a ring notification and when I looked it was like something was across it, kinda obscuring the view…

This ‘something’ then blew away.

And I see, with my own eyes a woman walking out of my house?!!

Screen recorded it all, assuming the twat would quickly realise his plan had failed, but he didn’t even realise, loser.

When I got home a dishcloth was on the floor under the ring bell 🙄

Told him what I’d seen, he tried for a microsecond to deny it but I told him I have it all on screen record & I’m getting the house valued this week.

I’m so over him and his twattery, she’s welcome to him, good luck to her, she’s going to need it.

Onwards and upwards, what tales of twattery would anyone else like to share?

When an op on a thread like this doesn’t return… I always wonder if it means they e backtracked and given a third / fourth / fifth chance

Nope just dealing with the fall out of my day to day life and working full time so not on MN every minute :)

has he come out of the room yet?

Not really, I’m just going about my life, walking the dog (he’s not bothered), making myself dinner etc.

I expect he thinks if he hides for long enough then it’ll what, all be forgotten about? Madness indeed, I’ve got a house viewing on Sat and a mortgage appointment tomorrow.

Need to get two words out of him to tell him I’m getting some valuations on our house next week but I’ll have to sort it all anyway so he can hide away all he likes.

Twat.

I would just text him to make him aware that the house is getting valued and leave him at that, it don’t need to be a face to face convo

She says she's in a new job .

Been through it. Here to support you.

His level of twattery was so epic that if I mention specifics on here, people always troll-hunt, like they’re hoping it’s not true 😂 News flash: it’s true, he was a (now diagnosed!) sociopath, and I’m so much better now that he’s not gaslighting me.

You’ll do great out there, OP. Take the (house) money and run!

Have you found out about any debt he has? That would be my concern at this stage. Although as you have some - might just cancel it out. Is he aware of your debt?

What a twat he is. Keep strong OP you are doing so well.

House on the market yet @Changingplace