Men and PORN

[MummyQuin]

Its the age old topic...why do men have to use porn??
GRr...i mean i dont go look at other naked men to get off!

i do

whats your problem exactly?

Are you a man? Please explain to me.

well i know dh watches it on the internet regularly...but he doesnt know i know. I understand his need and thats why i've allowed him his privacy. I do feel secure in our relationship and know it is total fantasy and he would not dare turn it into reality (at least not with someone else!). I also know he is not comparing me.

So why is it still bothering me?? I dont really know to be honest bcos im too tired too find the right emotional words...

erm no!

i don't know why it bothers you

we all have different sexual levels and tolerances.

sorry!

I think it has more to do with my self-validation than the porn itself perhaps.

Got to admit I don't have a problem with it at all! DH has a higher sex drive than me anyway so it keeps us both happy (so to speak )

Dp asks me to watch it with him. Let's say that there is not much watching going on soon!!!
I have no problem with it. Men are visual creatures.