I’ve been going to my local gym for almost two years now and usually attend a mix of classes. I’m there fairly regularly, so I see the same faces across the week and weekend. The general atmosphere is friendly — lots of chatty people, a mix of ages, and a steady flow of new members. I’ve met some lovely people and usually feel quite at ease.
There’s one thing that’s been bothering me, though. There’s a particular group — mostly women and one guy — who all seem very close. They chat before and after classes, and it’s clear they spend time together socially outside the gym. They’re friendly with others, but with me it’s… odd. I’ve tried saying hello a few times, and they either barely acknowledge me or ignore me completely. When I walk into the room, they don’t look up or say hi, even though they do with others. Interestingly, one of the girls will chat to me when she’s not with the group.
It’s starting to play on my mind more than I’d like. I’m not sure if it’s territorial, cliquey, or just a personality mismatch. People often tell me I’m pretty, so part of me wonders if that’s a factor, but I’m aware I might be overthinking.
Has anyone else experienced this kind of dynamic in a gym or class setting? **